We offer online relational coaching for dating, engaged, pre-marital or married couples, helping to strengthen your communication and love for each other.
Understanding your current relationship hardship and challenges
You may remember the moment you knew this was the person for you—a relationship worth preserving. However, maintaining a close, intimate relationship can be challenging due to life stress, daily demands, or unresolved issues.
Lately, you might feel disconnected. Whether you are fighting all the time or barely talking, you may be falling back into unhealthy patterns that stress your relationships. Left unaddressed, it can turn into an challenge that seem impossible to repair. It’s not. You found each other once, you can reconnect and find each other again – you need support and guidance to reconnect with yourself and with each other.
The personal and relational pain of disconnection
You may feel misunderstood, hurt, or lonely.
You might be struggling with something that happened a long time ago—or that recently happened—and your relationship never really recovered. Couples often feel pulled in different directions, or struggle with how to express their feelings about their relationship, current goals, and life together.
You might be stuck in perpetual arguments or constant conflict. Often, couples come seek support at a standstill or in intense conflict. You may feel isolated or alone due to a lack of sexual and emotional intimacy. The rare times you spend together may have an awkward silence as it seems like you have little to say to one another.
You might feel like you’re drifting apart or wondering whether this really is the right relationship.
Common issues leading couples to seek support
Choosing to get help can be difficult, but it can be the first step towards creating a better relationship. Relational Coaching is an useful tool that helps with a range of issues, from relationships to trauma. The stigma that the need to talk about your emotions is seen as weak or shameful is often why people don’t seek help in the first place. Every relationship deserves nurturing.
A safe and supportive environment
Our role is to provide a supportive, safe, and confidential environment in order to empower your relationship. We approach each session with specific goals in mind, tailored to what you both want to achieve. Whether it’s strengthening communication, resolving past issues, or rebuilding trust, we offer clear steps to guide you forward. We provide a safe, non-judgmental space where couples can explore their thoughts and feelings together, feel heard and seen in their relationships. Expect open dialogues and exercises aimed at building trust and emotional intimacy.
Many people fear that a coach will side with their partner; however, a good coach remains impartial, creating a level of safety for both partners to freely express their thoughts, opinions, and feelings.
Expertise and efficacy of relational coaching (My qualifications)
We help you identify and change negative thoughts that keep you from feeling your best in your relationship. Most couples see improvement within three to six months.
Scientific studies consistently show that behavioral and emotional interventions work well. A national research study found that 50 percent of psychotherapy clients had made improvement within eight sessions of therapy, and 75 percent showed improvement after six months of therapy (Kadera, Lambert, and Andrews, 1999, www.psychiatry.org).
Why couples coaching is the best decision
The most compelling return on your investment comes from successfully avoiding the financial and emotional devastation of divorce.
The Financial Costs You Avoid
The failure to address relationship issues is extremely expensive:
• By investing in coaching (avg. $5,000 over six months), you might avoid these steep costs of separation
The Emotional and Logistical Costs You Avoid
Divorce carries immense burdens far exceeding monetary value, which coaching helps you skip:
• You avoid feelings of being guilty, resentful, and feeling like a complete failure.
You gain a stronger, safer relationship
The investment results in a new relationship dynamic where you can:
You gain lasting personal and mental health returns
The commitment benefits you as an individual, which in turn strengthens the partnership:
• You set collaborative goals, ensuring you are supported through your growth while finding balance in the partnership.
Your required investment
“The most important decision you’ll ever make is who you marry.” – Warren Buffet
All investments need work, need support, need trust, and need active engagement to flourish. As you consider couples coaching, you are also accepting your responsibility to invest in yourself, your partnership, your time, and your finances.
Commitment Investment
• Your commitment to the coaching process can seem new, and arduous at times, but the progress has it’s ups and downs until we achieve your goals
• Couples can generally expect the coaching process to take anywhere from three months up to a year to achieve their desired goals